Plenty of good self help materials are available for every type of sexual issue. Browse the Internet or your local bookstore, pick out a few resources that apply to you and use them to help you and your partner become better informed about the problem. If talking directly is too difficult, you and your partner can underline passages that you particularly like and show them to each other. Give yourself time. As your age, your sexual responses slow down. You and your partner can improve your chances of success by finding a quiet, comfortable, interruption free setting for sex. Also, understand that the physical changes in your body mean that you'll need more time to get aroused and reach orgasm. When you think about it, spending more time having sex isn't a bad thing; working these physical necessities into your lovemaking routine can open up doors to a new kind of sexual experience.
Both men and women can improve their sexual fitness by exercising their pelvic floor muscles. To do these exercises, tighten the muscle you would use if you were trying to stop urine in midstream. Hold the contraction for two or three seconds, then release. Repeat 10 times. Try to do five sets a day. These exercises can be done any where- while driving, sitting at your desk or standing in a checkout line. At home, women may use vaginal weights to add muscle resistance. Talk to your doctor or a sex therapist about where to get these and how to use them.
Often, the vaginal dryness that begins in perimenopause can be easily corrected with lubricating liquids and gels. Use these freely to avoid painful sex. A problem that can snow ball into flagging libido and growing relationship tensions. When lubricants no longer work, discuss other options with your doctor.
Even if you're tired, tense, or upset about the problem, engaging in kissing and cuddling is essential for maintaining an emotional and physical bond.
The sensate focus techniques that sex therapists use can help you re-establish physical intimacy without feeling pressured. Many self help books and educational videos offer variations on these exercises. You may also want to ask your partner to touch you in a manner that he or she would like to be touched. This will give you a better sense of how much pressure from gentle to firm, you should use. Try different positions. Developing a repertoire of different sexual positions not only adds interest to lovemaking, but can also help overcome problems. "the increased stimulation to the G-spot that occurs when a man enters his partner from behind can help the woman reach orgasm."
This exercise can help you explore possible activities you think might be a turn on for you or your partner. Try thinking of an experience or a movie that aroused you and then share your memory with your partner. This is especially helpful for people with low desire.
Do something soothing together before having sex, such as playing a game or going out for a nice dinner. Or try relaxation techniques such as deep breathing exercises or yoga.
This device can help a woman learn about her own sexual response and allow her to show her partner what she likes. Don't give up. If none of your efforts seem to work, don't give up hope. Your doctor can often determine the cause of your sexual problem and may be able to identify effective treatments. He or she can also put you in touch with a sex therapist who can help you explore issues that may be standing in the way of a fulfilling sex life.
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Compliment her at least 5 times a day. It will make her feel a special, esteemed and closer to you and the more connected she feels, the more sexually inspired she will feel.
Hands can hold as an aphrodisiac work. It shows her that you are dedicated and proud to tell the world.
Take the Cuban Plunge Sex Position: As you take the man on top position, ask them to bring their knees to their breasts and put their legs over their shoulders. Your vagina is prolonged and dilated and your penetration will be deeper and more pleasant for them, which qualifies as a win-win situation.
The next time you kiss her, do not try to steal the second. Just kiss it. Men use kissing primarily as a means to an end to promote sexual relationships. Nevertheless, women mainly use kiss as a way to monitor the status of the relationship and especially the commitment of a partner.
One of the biggest reasons why women can not relax during sex is body image. Keep the lights down. A candle can be Perfect.
Lie on a ceiling in a park with people around and whisper fantasies to each other, sparing no detail. You will create sexual tension but certainly, because there is no sex at that time.
Use anticipation as an aphrodisiac. Instead of tearing her clothes, take your time. Tell her what you want to do with each section of the exposed skin.
Words she loves to hear, "It's OK to go slowly." Say it and mean it.
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She will give longer and more enthusiastic oral sex if you give her a verbal answer. Self esteem grunts are better than silence.
Besides, there is a reason why they like wild, loud sex.
If you're all the way in it, add side-to-side movement or up-and-down pelvic pressure against their clitoris to vary the stimulation.
Both you and your lady write five sexual fantasies on five separate notebook cards. Then go to a restaurant where you can get a stand and some privacy in a public environment. Over dinner and wine, take the cards out and make three piles-"yes", maybe one day and not on your life. Put the possibilities in a shoe box, and once a month draw a winner.
Ask them to kiss your earlobe with the same pressure they prefer during oral, then they master their style the next time you are south of the border.
Think about it as a fat burning foreplay. It will increase their dopamine levels and ease their fears. Bonus: Your post-run sweat has Androstadienon, a testosterone derivative that spurs her arousal when she smells it.
The best compliments are those that involve multiple senses. You have beautiful breasts. You have prefect breasts-they feel so soft and warm in my hands.
If a woman who knows you is spoken to you, it is flattering. It is tempting. But remember that she does it to feed her own ego. She wants to see how much power she holds over you and when you take her bait, she knows she must be superior in every respect. Deep, she has nothing but contempt for your male weakness and the existence of your girl. That should really piss you off.
Use your thumb to press on her G-spot as if you were making a fingerprint on her vaginal wall. They shoot for the area about 2 inches in the vaginal opening, on the front.(Do you want to know more about their mysterious pleasure organ?) Here are 5 things you do not know about their vagina.
When you kiss, do not use your tongue like an arrow (in and out, in and out). Instead, try different moves and sets of pressure.
For the exaggerated stimulation of their nerve-packed parts, keep short and flat, rather than deep and fast.
Words she loves to hear,"I want you to feel good."
Looking for the one? Do not leave your spoken friends. A man with a woman or a living girlfriend has an extended social circle that is, he knows more women (which he could possibly imagine) than he did when he was single.
The nerve filled clitoris actually extends several centimeters under the skin on both sides of their vagina (like a cross-linker) which means that they can be massaged without direct pressure on the bud. Trace the extensions with flat, wide, extra-wet tongues or slow finger zigzag. (Do not forget lubricating oil). Then rub a slow spiral around the top, drawing closer to each pass. The combination of anticipation and indirect contact brings their entertainment centers to life.
Write her a letter that does not contain a laser printer or an e-mail address. Write down what you feel, but the prevailing feeling should be a gratitude and confidence in your future together. Then send it to you.
To increase the clitoral contact when it is up, make a V with two fingers and place it so that the point of the V (just between the two ankles) is directly over her clitoris. Your fingers should come on either side of your penis as she rides you. This will stimulate the clitoris, the inner labia and the urethra and increase the intensity for you.
A beautiful woman has given you her number; Use it within 48 hours. Otherwise you will be frightened.
To be continued....